kelsey ruffing September 26, 2023 Discernment Counseling How Father-In-Law Expectations Can Show Up in Discernment Counseling kelsey ruffing September 26, 2023 Discernment Counseling I recently wondered about the lengths husbands go to satisfy their father-in-law and how it showed up in discernment counseling. I work with husbands, thinking about the three paths of discernment counseling.